A TOOL TO DECEIVE AND SLAUGHTER (DoctorKitten)
F / 64 yrs old.
member since: nov. 5, 2005
last online: today @ 11:58 AM PST
posted
January 18, 2010 1:36 AM PST
i'm just going to start screaming and not stop
I am beginning to hate Eli's mother, and now I hate this blog entry form, which just ate the long ass fucking entry I wrote about it.
In short: She's a selfish cunt who thinks everything is about her. She's coming into town tomorrow night (Monday), which is two days earlier than she told us. And she apparently expects to stay with us in our tiny-ass apartment. Yes, we do have a spare room/office, but at the moment it is filled with WEDDING CRAP for that little wedding thing we're fucking doing. Oh, and it's where all my crafting shit is for the wedding. Oh, and we told her months ago that I reserved hotel rooms at $28 a night, which she refuses to pay because she's a cheap, selfish bitch who will be busy spending her money on lift tickets and gas to drive MY car up to Mt Hood and back while she spends her time skiing. So now in addition to paying for you know, a wedding, we have to either cough up the money to pay for her ass to stay in a hotel or we have to rearrange out entire lives so she can stay in our itty-bitty apartment.
Eli sez she's just selfish and thoughtless and thinks everything is about her, and that she has the mentality of a 13 year old. When he tried to explain to her about staying in a hotel because our place is so tiny and full of stuff, and because we're SUPERBUSY this week, she flipped out and started screaming about how he hates her and why should she even come since she's not allowed at the wedding ceremony (no one is), and then hung up on him. She hangs up on him all the time, and she threatened to divorce him a few months ago over some stupid bug up her ass.
I feel awful, but I am so angry and resentful right now. I feel like I'm a hateful person because I am just starting to FUCKING HATE HER. Ugh.
last updated January 18, 2010 2:03 AM PST
posted
January 18, 2010 1:05 PM PST
She can threaten to not come all she wants, but that's her decision. Don't let her trick you into thinking that you're the one not letting her come because you wouldn't cave to her demands.
Foot down. Put it.
Also, have the bedroom she's staying in literally filled to the brim with crap when she shows up so she knows you weren't kidding.
posted
January 18, 2010 6:00 PM PST
It's hard for me to remember I can say no sometimes. Like, I'm an XBOX HUEG pushover IRL, and am easily guilted. But I will try to remember that it's okay when someone is being entirely unreasonable.
posted
January 20, 2010 9:00 AM PST
posted
January 18, 2010 10:48 AM PST
I hate her and I don't even have to deal with her. I really don't think you have any reason to feel awful.