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is officially on thin fucking ice. Im on anti depressants and getting used to them hes not hangin in there with me and he just bitched at me cus he called me a liar and said i smoked a cig in the housse which I would never do.
even I am ready to say DTMFA
even I am ready to say DTMFA
he came into the bedroom this morning, cuddled up and I said, I miss you. Who are you and what have you done with the Steve I know? and hes all "Its been a fucked up couple of weeks, I love you"
blalbablablabla yaddayaddayadda gooooo fcukyaself
blalbablablabla yaddayaddayadda gooooo fcukyaself
I love the way boys think "I miss you" can replace an 'i'm sorry', which in truth it cannot, unless it's followed up with amazing sex. I often wonder if testosterone blocks the brain from processing those two words.
women need to realize that men aren't mind readers, as much as you want us to know what you're thinking all the time we dont. Maybe if you communicated with your boyfriend without getting angry at what he has to say back to you, things will work out better... and if it does go into a fight the two of you should learn eachothers moods better and realize when to either laugh it off or walk away and have a cigarette or something to make you calm down and then continue the discussion. screaming at eachother only makes things worse... good luck
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| Originally posted by thatfuckingguy on September 4, 2010 1:04 PM PDT women need to realize that men aren't mind readers, as much as you want us to know what you're thinking all the time we dont. Maybe if you communicated with your boyfriend without getting angry at what he has to say back to you, things will work out better... and if it does go into a fight the two of you should learn eachothers moods better and realize when to either laugh it off or walk away and have a cigarette or something to make you calm down and then continue the discussion. screaming at eachother only makes things worse... good luck |
Women really don't expect men to read their minds they just want to be paid attention to and taken into consideration. Women want to know that their men care enough to notice something is wrong and that they care enough take some action to help cheer them up. Girls hate being invisible and unfortunately men seem to think they were born with the gift of awesome, entitling them to think all they have to do for a girl is exist.
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| Originally posted by EarfSeyenz on September 3, 2010 11:12 PM PDT is officially on thin fucking ice. Im on anti depressants and getting used to them hes not hangin in there with me and he just bitched at me cus he called me a liar and said i smoked a cig in the housse which I would never do. even I am ready to say DTMFA |
Please consider this...
Do you think he has any idea that you are emotionally confused right now because of your new med. and that you expect for him to be gentle with you? Maybe he doesn't realize that a tiny thing like bitching about smoking in the house is enough to upset you in a big way?
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Originally posted by Jennocide on September 4, 2010 1:27 PM PDT
Women really don't expect men to read their minds they just want to be paid attention to and taken into consideration. Women want to know that their men care enough to notice something is wrong and that they care enough take some action to help cheer them up. Girls hate being invisible and unfortunately men seem to think they were born with the gift of awesome, entitling them to think all they have to do for a girl is exist. |
Perfectly stated! It's all about consideration and selflessness. The problem begins when only one person exhibits these characteristics. Sometimes you need to think about your partner's needs before your own. Or at minimum, pretend that you do.
Learn to make yourself happy, once you master this everything falls in line...or it doesn't if you get my meaning.
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| Originally posted by sconsinite on September 4, 2010 2:02 PM PDT smoking inside is gross. E's boyfriend has every right to be pissed. |
This. I've smoked off and on for years, (not that I'm proud), and I've never smoked in my home.
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| Originally posted by sconsinite on September 4, 2010 2:02 PM PDT smoking inside is gross. E's boyfriend has every right to be pissed. |
I've seen you do it plenty of times. Hundreds, even.
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